My Hours/Phone Etiquette

It is posted on My sessions page that I take calls 11a-7pm, yet there are people who call and text at all sorts of inappropriate hours. I am not your drunk dial. I’m not interested in talking to ANYONE at 7am. I turn My phone off when I’m off-duty so you’re wasting your time. I will not pick up your call after My hours of working are over. My hours are My hours. I am not going to see you late night for many reasons. This is not negotiable and I don’t need to explain to you why, just as I’m not going to explain why My limits are My limits. It’s not your job to get inside My head, that’s My job.

I’m a fairly informal/low protocol Mistress, however there have been some recent trends I find unacceptable. While you don’t have to address Me as Mistress on the phone, you should never address Me in a way that is casual like “hey”, “what’s up”, and the like. I’m not your pal. If you are lucky I might be your Dominatrix. I am not in any way obligated or required to see anyone. I pick and choose My clients and see who I want to see, which is usually people who are respectful and with whom I share common play interests. Speaking to Me in ways I find to be disrespectful will not win you any points with Me. While I understand people have circumstances where they can’t get a return call, it is never acceptable to call Me over and over again. Calling Me repeatedly is a sure fire way to be ignored. Calling Me from a blocked number will guarantee your call will never be answered.

Some Dommes don’t text; I don’t mind texting. At times it is the most effective way to communicate. What I don’t like is when people are pushy. If I don’t answer your text right away I’m probably busy. Getting an attitude or throwing a tantrum is never acceptable and will get you black-listed. I know you are excited, but I’m not going to be pressured into booking something when My schedule is already full. I only session when I know I can be at My best. My time and energy levels should be respected even if they don’t line up with your libido.

While working as a Dominatrix is one way that I make a living, doing sessions is supposed to be fun. People who engage in the behavior described make it not fun. Don’t be one of those people.

Thanks,
Julie Simone

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