Personal Slaves / Service vs Professional Play

I often get inquiries about being My personal slave. While having slaves can be very useful, for the most part these inquiries are coming from a very selfish place. I have 1 slave who serves Me. He is a service oriented cleaning slave. He doesn’t clean in exchange for beatings or sessions, he cleans because he gets his enjoyment from doing something that makes Me happy. THAT is his reward – My happiness. There’s no ulterior motive, he doesn’t do a half-ass job. When he leaves, My place is super deep – down clean.

One person asked to be My bondage slave. What exactly am I supposed to be getting out of that situation? I’m a world-renowned rigger, does he think I need practice? He suggested that I tie him then leave him in a room for a few hours. That’s what I call an energy vampire. Though we’re not in the same room, that person is still sucking My energy; I am still thinking about that person and need to make sure he is ok. Now doesn’t that sound more like I am serving him?

A young male called Me and kept going on and on about how good looking he was, how he could have any woman he wanted but he needed a real woman to take control. He couldn’t stop talking about how great he was. There is no “i” in slave. That is, there is no ego or selfishness in a slave. The slave is there to serve. Any extra attention, play, etc is a bonus, a reward, and should be appreciated as such. It is not something to be expected, thus no resentment on the part of the slave should ever arise. One needs to really examine his/her motives before offering himself/herself as a slave. If your motives are selfish, you need to book a session and pay for what you want. It really is that simple.

Julie Simone

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