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How Not to Please a Dominant Woman #164
“I hope that you would allow me to serve you without having to pay for your time … for your own pleasure”
Nothing pleases Me about a cheap man, not in a romantic situation and certainly not when it’s a slave. I want slaves that are thoughtful, that send Me gifts. It doesn’t have to be something expensive, something small like a Starbucks gift card also pleases Me. I don’t want to have to micro-manage someone. That’s more work, that’s not making My life easier and more enjoyable. When out with a slave I never want to have to pay for anything. Depending on O/our dynamic, if it’s a friend that’s a slave vs My slave, I may offer, but ultimately I want to be taken care of. That is the type of service that pleases Me.
This recent experience exemplifies the perfect slave : while out with Sheri Darling in Manhattan, her slave knew that at some point We would need/want to eat. He didn’t wait until he was asked. He didn’t wait until one of Us posted about it. He sent Her money early in the day so We wouldn’t even need to think about it. He sent way more money than We would have normally spent on brunch. He wanted Us to go all out and eat somewhere fancy, and so We did. He gave Us an experience We probably wouldn’t have given Ourselves otherwise. The purpose of a slave in My eyes, is to elevate Your status as a Domme, to take care of You, not because You can’t take care of Yourself, but because You deserve these things. His pleasure comes from making You happy. A happy Mistress will want to give Her time freely because She doesn’t have stress, needs or wants that are being unfulfilled.
A slave who wants My time for free is only thinking of himself. That type of slave will undoubtedly feel that he is owed something which is not a positive dynamic because it’s not coming from a positive and pure place. For this slave to assume I need him to get play is egotistical and unrealistic. I don’t need a slave for anything. Need is not a healthy emotion, especially in a BDSM dynamic. I get plenty of play time in my Pro sessions. If I want something else I will seek it out. I’m not sitting at home hoping and waiting for some sub to decide to give Me playtime for free.
Mistress Julie Simone
Julie Simone Pens New Article for Scene Magazine
Julie Simone Pens New Article for Scene Magazine
(New York, NY) Late last year, Julie Simone became a featured contributor the international BDSM/fetish online magazine, Scene Magazine, and penned articles about after care, orgasm control, the stigma of strap on play and the importance of warms-ups. Her latest piece, “Overcoming Hurdles”, can be viewed at Scene Magazine
Scene Magazine says they chose Julie for “her expertise as international model, domme, teacher, photographer and filmmaker, which is passed along in her personal column where she shares her thoughts and opinions while pulling from her extraordinary experience.”
“I went through a phase where I wasn’t writing much–I took down my e-book ‘The World of Julie Simone’ which had several years of ultra personal journals compiled and took a step back to evaluate how much of my personal life and experiences I wanted to share with the world,” says Julie Simone. “I’m enjoying this new writing gig as it allows me to draw from my experiences and share stores while hopefully enlightening or at least amusing readers. Look for a new article on the site from me each month!”
In other Julie Simone news, Porn Life Magazine, a brand new online adult magazine, recently premiered their magazine with a very personal and in-depth article about Julie Simone. The article can be viewed at pornlifemagazine.com/issue/march. Also, look for Julie on the catwalk for two designers, KLAWTEX and Vengeance Designs, at Miss Rubber World in NYC on March 24th and in the new blip tv sketch comedy series “Dominatrix Diaries” coming soon!
All requests for interviews, appearances, magazine placement and general media inquiries about Julie Simone should be directed to Erika Icon of The Rub PR at erika@therubpr.com.
About Julie Simone
Julie Simone was the first woman to be awarded Best Rigger in the Industry in 2004. She’s taught at ShibariCon, FetishCon, DomCon, BondCon NYC, Threshold, German Fetish Ball, as well as smaller community based clubs and one-on-one classes. Her talents have been showcased in hundreds of DVDs, as well as on G4TV’s “Attack of the Show” and she was featured in the documentary pilot Dominatrix Diaries, which was screened at the NYC Television Film Festival.
Her films have been shown at New England Erotic Arts Festival, Cinekink (Portland, SF, NYC, DC, Chicago, LA, Berlin), Los Angeles and Baltimore Erotic Festivals, Berlin Porn Film Festival, Cinerotic (Atlanta), Kiel Fetisch Film Festival, PopPorn festival in Rio and Uruguay, and MIX Festival, just to name a few. In 2011, she began painting and showing her work on her site Deconstructed Beauty Projekt, but Julie has received notoriety for her photography for some time. Her work has appeared in Secret Magazine, Bizarre, Fetish Photo Anthology 4 & 5, Bondage and Fetish (France), and has been exhibited in shows including The Dirty Show, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, Folsom Street Fair Art Exhibit at Femina Potens Gallery and The Traveling Erotic Art Show that exhibited in San Francisco, Seattle, Chicago, New York, and Florida.
Look for her monthly BDSM/fetish lifestyle column each month on Scene Magazine at http://www.scene-mag.com. Her previous writing credits include Boyd X, Social Kink, and the foreword for the book “Smut in Hotel Rooms”. To learn more about Julie Simone, visit her websites JulieSimone.com, JuliesBitchBoys.com, SmokingTV.com, POVDommes.com and FootFetishSluts.com. Watch Julie in her Internet sensation YouTube video clip Dominatrix in Williamsburg Brooklyn NYC that has been viewed over 140,000 times–it was featured on Tosh.0, Gawker, The Village Voice Blog and VH1, along with BestWeekEver.tv, Buzzfeed and Redux. To see Julie in action, visit her TRAILERS PAGE
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