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Connecting/Chastity

When I play, especially when I am the Dominant, it’s extremely important to Me to have a connection with what I’m doing. That is, I almost never do something to someone else that I haven’t done Myself. Of course there are things I can’t do like urethral sounds…

When I was directing and performing for Twisted Factory’s site Captive Male, I was doing strap on scenes with men for the first time. It was never anything that appealed to Me for some reason. Thinking back it’s funny to Me since now it’s something I REALLY enjoy. The scenes I was doing were awkward, I couldn’t get the right angles and positions. Typically the guys would request doggy style, but I was substantially taller than they were in bare feet. Add heels to the mix (I rarely wear anything lower than 5″), and it was ridiculously uncomfortable for Me and often simply would not work.

My solution to this was to start having anal sex in My personal life to get a better feel of the mechanics of what I was doing. I had had anal sex before, but it had been years. I had forgotten what it felt like. Once I became reacquainted, I did a session where I had the sub on his back so he could look at Me while I was fucking him. From then on, it’s clicked.

A big part of it is I HATE being turned to a wall when I’m subbing to someone. If you’re going to torture Me you need to look at Me and connect with Me, I can’t be just another body. Fucking a sub doggy style gives them a chance to disengage and I can’t see their expressions, I can’t feel their energy. I know some people don’t care about that, but I do.

In My personal life right now I’m doing a celibacy stint as a social experiment of sorts. It occured to Me that celibacy is a form of self-imposed chastity. Chastity is an area of play I’ve never understood. As a sub I wouldn’t go back to a top who denied Me over and over again, it would just piss Me off. As a Domme I like for My subs to cum for Me. I like to give them as much pleasure (with their pain, of course) as I can. Denying pleasure simply doesn’t come naturally to Me.

My research on chastity is starting now. If anyone has links or experiences they would like to share, please do.

Mistress Julie Simone

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